Adam Cam

If he likes another girls post…

Dear men, pick your lane and handle what comes with it.

Transparency isn’t about being “controlled” or “whipped,” or whatever the trending buzzword is these days… 
It’s about creating safety and prioritising your partners peace of mind by leaving no space for doubt.

Love island

The version of them that shows up in that first argument… is version you’ll be dealing with when life gets hard and stress is high. It shows you how they deal with pressure, accountability, and emotional discomfort. So don’t ignore it. Don’t excuse it. Don’t romanticise your way around it. Remember, an argument isn’t a red flag. It’s a reveal.

Don’t trust “nice” men. Now compare that to a good man:   He’s kind… but he’s honest and direct.   He won’t just agree just to keep you happy... but he’ll handle any conflict or tension with empathy and respect.   He’ll have strong boundaries and stand by his beliefs (even when it’s uncomfortable) because he values the long-term potential of the relationship more than your temporary approval.   He never, and I repeat, NEVER love bombs you and showers you with compliments, nor ever put you on a pedestal.   Why? Because he doesn’t need to. He’s not trying to win you, manipulate you, or fast-track intimacy… he’s trying to get to know you. And sees you as his equal.   So remember…   A nice man cares about being liked.
 A good man cares about being real. One wants approval. The other wants connection. Learn the difference.

You don’t really know a man until you get pregnant by him.

Feelings decide the effort. Boundaries decide the behaviour.

Come back to this video when you need a reminder

Intimacy without commitment isn’t the problem… Normalising it is.

The reason I will never trust a person who cheats on their partner… A snake may shed its skin… but it’s still a snake.

Which one are you?

Ask them…

How to stop wasting time dating the WRONG people

8 GREEN FLAGS to look for in a MAN

A person who is comfortable and at ease with being is a powerful person

When you’re really into someone… do LESS, not MORE.

When we hear “gold digger,” we instantly think of a woman chasing money or lifestyle. But we never talk about the men who chase convenience, comfort, and control… at their partner’s expense. This post isn’t for the men who genuinely show up, provide, contribute, and carry their weight. It’s for the ones who don’t… and still expect a queen, without ever becoming a king. So no, not all men are gold diggers. But a lot are digging… they just don’t realise that’s what they’re doing.

Don’t put your emotional home in someone else